Online Therapists in Texas


Helping Adults and Teens Move from Self-Monitoring to Self-Trust


Trauma is the origin. Self-monitoring is the adaptation. 
Self-trust is what's needed. Flexibility is the treatment.

Understanding the Process Beneath the Symptoms

We specialize in understanding why intelligent, insightful people become trapped in self-monitoring—and helping them gradually rely on their own judgment again.

Diagnoses, research, and evidence-based treatments are all vital for therapy.

But diagnoses only describe what you're experiencing. We also want to understand why your mind learned to work this way.

This approach to therapy shifts people from asking,

"What's wrong with me?"

to asking,

"Given everything I've experienced, why wouldn't my mind have learned to protect me this way?"

You're not fixing yourself anymore.

You're making intentional adjustments.

The Philosophy Behind Point of Convergence

Founder: Abigail Eck, LPA-IP

Before becoming a therapist, I studied mathematics. One of my favorite mathematical concepts was convergence. There are equations that move closer and closer to a particular number without ever quite reaching it. With every step, the distance between where you are and the number you're approaching becomes smaller. The fascinating part is that no matter how many steps you take, you never actually reach that number. It's simply not possible. That number that we're getting infinitely closer to is called the Point of Convergence.

That idea has stayed with me because therapy feels the same way. People often begin therapy hoping they'll eventually reach a place where they never question themselves, never feel anxious, never doubt a decision, or never struggle again.

But that's simply not how human beings work. There is no final version of ourselves where growth is complete. Instead, every conversation, insight, setback, experiment, and act of courage becomes another step. Nothing is wasted.

Now, flash forward to when I began training as a therapist, I was taught different diagnoses require fundamentally different approaches. Yet, in practice, that didn’t feel right and I kept noticing the same pattern.

Clients arrived with different histories, symptoms, and diagnoses, yet many were asking the same question:

"Why don't I trust myself?"

That observation combined with the mathematical principle of convergence became the clinical philosophy behind Point of Convergence Therapy. We're not trying to help you become perfect or immune to pain. We're helping you take incremental steps toward a life where relying on your own judgment gradually feels more natural than monitoring yourself.

When you look back across your time in therapy, you'll often realize you've traveled much farther than you noticed while taking each individual step.

How We Approach Therapy

Therapy isn't about fixing yourself through sheer will power. We help you understand your system well enough to make intentional adjustments.

We view therapy as a place to untangle the complexities of your past and present. We start with what's happening today and become curious about where things might have started. 

As the picture becomes clearer, we explore which patterns are still serving you, which aren't, and what you'd like to do differently. 

Then we begin experimenting—one adjustment at a time.

To support this theoretical approach, we intentionally weave together approaches like IFS, Somatic Experiencing, ACT, CBT, DBT, and EMDR based on your goals, your nervous system, and where you are in the healing process.

Our Mission

Help people rebuild trust in themselves.

Many of the people we work with learned that their emotions were too much.

Their needs were inconvenient.

Their anger was dangerous.

Their uncertainty was unacceptable.

Or someone else's comfort mattered more than their own.

Over time, those experiences taught them to monitor themselves instead of trusting themselves. Our work is helping reverse that process. As self-trust begins to return, many people discover they no longer need certainty or perfection quite as much. Freedom starts to feel safe.

Meet Our Team

Our Values

Compassion & Understanding

Honoring how you adapted to survive, while supporting new ways of relating to yourself and others.

Common Humanity

Humans need humans, and healing happens best in the context of safe, deeply attuned relationships.

Honesty & Open Communication

Therapy is a space where you feel seen, heard, and empowered, and where feedback from you is always welcome.

Client as the Expert

Your say in your healing process is of the utmost importance. While we offer the clinical tools to help you heal, you decide which resonates most and aligns with your needs.

Your Next Step

If you've spent years trying to understand yourself, trying to fix yourself, or trying to get everything exactly right, we get it.

Therapy isn't about becoming someone else. It's about gradually relying on your own judgment again.

Our team would be honored to help you take the next step.

FAQs

I’ve tried everything, how do I know this will work?

The truth is, you don’t. There is uncertainty with any new thing that you try. But what you can trust is probability. Based on the number of clients we have helped and the specialized training we’ve completed, it’s very likely we will be able to help you feel better.  Our unique blend of both cognitive, emotional, skill-building, and somatic modalities helps to fill in gaps where past providers may not have understood what was happening.  

We can’t make any promises, but we ask you to trust that small voice of curiosity. That’s truly all you need to get started.  

Do you only work with OCD, Anxiety, Trauma, or dissociation?

We tend to work with clients whose symptoms are in the extremes, either checking in a lot with your body or hyper-aware of body sensations (OCD/anxiety) or not at all/very little (dissociation). The great thing about this specialty is that if you exist anywhere between these two extremes, we can probably help you. Plus, our grasp of the extremes will make us more helpful than if we didn’t have this specialty. 

How soon will I notice results or feel better?

The truth is, this work just takes time. You didn’t develop your symptoms overnight, so it’s not going to be cured in a few sessions. But, you will start feeling slivers of relief just by meeting with someone who understands you and can help make sense of your confusing experience.

Our brains are so complex – and the deep work we offer is literally rewiring your brain and creating new neural pathways.  The work you do in trauma therapy is just as much a structural rewiring of your brain as it is emotional healing.  

Due to the depth of our work with each client, and what we know about neuroplasticity, we are limited in only serving clients who are ready to fully commit for at least 6 months, so they can stay with us long enough to experience relief and progress.

What is dissociation and how do I know I’m doing it?

Dissociation is just another way of saying checking out of your body, yourself, or your reality. Like any experience, it exists on a spectrum of extremes, from your typical ‘checking out’ during a boring work call to feeling like you’re in a dream or watching yourself from afar to having fractured identities (Dissociative Identity Disorder). There are assessments we can offer to help you understand the level of dissociation.

I’m ashamed of my thoughts and feelings. Will you judge me?

Absolutely not. We're all human and all have our oddities and issues. When it comes to anxiety, trauma, dissociation, and OCD, it’s very common for there to be an underlying, unconscious layer of shame underneath. We anticipate that and know how to help when it comes up.  What that means is we won’t judge you – and in fact, it will help form a more complete picture of your experience. The more you share what scares you, the more we can offer you the reparative experience– responding with compassion, care, and lack of fear. 

I have another question. How can I reach you?

Please feel free to email us at info@mypoctherapy.com or text us at 713.487.6885 with any questions we haven’t answered here. We want to hear from you and ensure you feel confident about exploring services with us.   

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